Questions and Answers
The brain is __ seeking and __ oriented.
pattern-seeking and survival oriented
Conscious discipline is based on what type of change?
transformational
What are the 4 ingredients necessary for connection? (Select all that apply)
What do connections wire our brains for?
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What is the job description?
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What dictates behavior?
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Self-regulation puts a pause between which two elements?
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What is the survival state?
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What is the emotional state?
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What is the executive state?
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What is the acronym for the survival state?
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What is the acronym for the emotional state?
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What is the acronym for the executive state?
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When you are triggered and move into an emotional state, what is playing on your CD-rom?
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What does QTip stand for?
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What does OOPS stand for?
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Conscious discipline is built on what two core principles? (Select all that apply)
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What is one known fast track to the executive state?
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What does the STAR acronym stand for?
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What creates the 'we' in a connected home or school family?
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How should you shift your 'make me' language?
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What do mirror neurons do?
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What is the most important part of implementing the safe place?
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How do we change behavior?
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An assertive voice is the voice of?
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What are 3 ways to replace 'good job' with encouragement? (Select all that apply)
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What is the intent behind control?
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What is the intent behind structure?
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What is the bridge between problems and solutions?
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What does DNA stand for?
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Discouraged children are?
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Disconnected children are?
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What has the ability to turn resistance into cooperation?
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What are the 3 types of intent? (Select all that apply)
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What are the 2 key ingredients for effective consequences? (Select all that apply)
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What are the 3 types of consequences? (Select all that apply)
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What does the PEACE acronym stand for?
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Study Notes
Conscious Discipline Overview
- The brain is pattern-seeking and survival-oriented, driving behaviors and reactions.
- Conscious Discipline promotes transformational change in individuals and environments.
Connection Ingredients
- Four essential ingredients for connection:
- Eye contact
- Touch
- Presence
- Playful situations
Impact of Connections
- Connections enhance self-control and willingness among individuals, fostering a supportive environment.
Job Description
- Adults' job: maintain a safe environment.
- Children's job: assist in maintaining a safe space.
Behavior and States
- Behavior is dictated by one's state: survival, emotional, or executive.
- Self-regulation allows for a pause between stimulus and response.
Brain States Explained
- Survival State: Governed by the brain stem, characterized by attack, defend, or surrender responses.
- Emotional State: Managed by the middle brain, includes feelings of blame, shame, guilt, and verbal attacks.
- Executive State: Associated with the pre-frontal lobe, involving investigation and wisdom.
Acronyms for States
- Survival State: Noticing, Assertiveness, Routines with pictures, Composure, Safe place (NARCS).
- Emotional State: Rituals, Encouragement, Jobs, Empathy, Choices, The school family (REJEC).
- Executive State: Solutions, Positive intent, Academic integration, Consequences, Executive skills (SPACE).
Triggers and Responses
- When triggered, responses are influenced by one's personal past.
- QTip: Quit Taking It Personally; a reminder for mindful responses.
- OOPS: Other Opportunities to Practice Self-Control; encourages finding chances to improve behavior.
Core Principles
- Conscious Discipline focuses on building a healthy family dynamic and fostering intrinsic motivation.
Techniques for State Change
- Wishing well is known as a fast track to achieving the executive state.
- STAR: Smile, Take a deep breath, And Relax; a technique for self-regulation.
Fostering Connection
- Building a "we" culture involves shifting from judging others to noticing behaviors.
- Reframe "make me" language into "I'm going to" statements to promote cooperation.
Mirror Neurons and Connection
- Mirror neurons download calmness to children through eye contact and deep breathing, facilitating emotional regulation.
Safe Place Importance
- The presence of a safe adult is crucial in implementing a safe space for children.
Behavior Modification
- Modify behavior by clearly stating desired actions rather than forbidden behaviors.
Assertiveness and Encouragement
- An assertive voice signifies a stance of knowing and confidence.
- Replace "good job" with encouragement phrases like "You did it," "Way to go," and "Good for you."
Understanding Intentions
- Control often implies a punitive or coercive intent, while structure aims to provide help.
- Feelings serve as a bridge between problems and solutions.
DNA Technique
- DNA: Describe body signals, Name the feeling, Acknowledge desire or intent; a method for emotional expression.
Effects of Disconnection
- Discouraged children tend to be disruptive, while disconnected children pose larger risks of dangerous behavior.
Turning Resistance into Cooperation
- Positive intent can transform resistance into cooperation among individuals.
Intent Types and Consequences
- Three types of intent: punitive (punish), permissive (rescue), and intent to teach (educate).
- Two ingredients essential for effective consequences are reflection and ownership.
- Three types of consequences include:
- Natural
- Logical
- Problem solving
PEACE Framework
- PEACE: Problem stated, Encouragement for ownership, Affirmation of the problem, Collection of helpful situations, Evaluation of effectiveness.
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