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Questions and Answers

What was the primary purpose of Mr. Erwin and the twins meeting in the garden?

  • To learn new gardening techniques
  • To discuss challenges and the Five D's (correct)
  • To plan their school schedule
  • To practice for a school performance

What did Jay learn about his identity as a result of Mr. Erwin's guidance?

  • His identity should be shaped by the opinions of others.
  • His identity should be based on how he performs in competitions.
  • His identity is defined by his achievements.
  • His identity is determined by the God who created him. (correct)

What change did Jay make to counteract the bullying he faced?

  • Joined the bullies' group
  • Requested a transfer to a different school
  • Ignored the situation completely
  • Started walking with confidence (correct)

How did Kay's experience with her injuries change her perspective on cheering?

<p>She shifted from wanting to succeed to wanting to serve her team. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What advice did Mr. Erwin give Jay regarding his worries about the future?

<p>Worry less about future greatness and be great today (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following statements about Mr. Erwin's advice is true?

<p>He emphasized the importance of faithfulness over perfection. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did Jay's success in filmmaking affect his worries about his future?

<p>Diminished his worries about being a famous filmmaker (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was Kay's initial emotional state after tearing her ACL?

<p>She struggled with doubt and anxiety. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was Jay's emotional response following his girlfriend's actions?

<p>Suicidal thoughts and self-doubt (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What lesson did Kay learn during her rehabilitation process?

<p>Helping others can foster personal growth. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did Mr. Erwin support Jay after his breakup?

<p>Reminded him of God's plan and reassured him (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did Jay's prayers change during his difficult time?

<p>He prayed for help, strength, guidance, and miracles. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What realization did Jay come to after dealing with his ex-girlfriend's actions?

<p>It was easy to forget the lessons of the Five D's (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the twins' attitude towards their challenges as observed by Mr. Erwin?

<p>They faced their challenges with optimism and trust. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What were the Five D's intended to help the twins counter?

<p>Emotional struggles and negative feelings (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

New Challenges

New difficulties or obstacles encountered in life.

Spiral Staircase of Worry and Despair

A downward spiral of negative thoughts and feelings, leading to hopelessness.

Five D's

Five aspects of life that can lead to difficulty and negative emotions (Doubt, Discouragement, Despair).

Confidence

A feeling of self-assurance.

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Suicidal Thoughts

Negative thoughts about taking one's own life.

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God's Plan

A belief that every action, challenge, or relationship has a purpose within a larger, divine plan.

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Scholarships

Financial awards given to students to help them pay for education at college or university.

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Purpose

Reason for existence or a cause and aim of one's actions.

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Long-distance Relationship

A romantic relationship between people who do not live close to each other.

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Insecurities

Feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt.

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Doubt

Uncertainty or lack of conviction.

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Identity Crisis

A period of self-doubt where one's sense of self is challenged by outside factors.

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External Influence on Identity

How others' actions and words can impact one's sense of self.

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Defining Identity Through God

Finding self-worth and purpose through a strong belief in a higher power.

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Building Trust in God

Developing a strong faith in God and using prayer to seek guidance.

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Overcoming Fear and Anxiety

Strategies to manage fear and anxiety using faith, prayer, and support from others.

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Redefining Goals

Changing priorities from success to service once one's needs are met.

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Trusting God's Plan

Embracing the unknown while believing in a divine plan.

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Resilience Through Challenges

Overcoming obstacles with an optimistic mindset and strong belief in oneself.

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Walking Like a Champion

Maintaining confidence and purpose in the midst of a struggle.

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Learning from Experiences

Gaining important life lessons (like patience, trust, and leadership) as a result of challenges and trials.

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The Importance of Support Systems

Recalling that having supportive people helps with navigating life's complexities.

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Study Notes

Challenges and Victories of Jay and Kay

  • Jay and Kay met weekly with Mr. Erwin to discuss life challenges and applying the Five D's.
  • Jay faced bullying, but gained confidence, stopping the bullying.
  • Jay continued to worry about his future, but Mr. Erwin encouraged him to focus on the present.
  • Jay's movie gained recognition, leading to a film school scholarship.
  • Despite victories, Jay experienced suicidal thoughts after a breakup.
  • Mr. Erwin helped Jay understand that his ex-girlfriend's actions weren't a reflection on him.
  • Jay's identity is defined by God, not others.
  • The breakup helped Jay rely on God and develop a deeper relationship.

Kay's Journey

  • Kay overcame past anxieties, evidenced by stopping wearing long-sleeved shirts after healed arm cuts.
  • Mr. Erwin encouraged Kay to perform for God, fostering faith and trust in God's plan.
  • Kay tore her ACL but didn't let fear and anxiety control her.
  • She faced rehab and uncertainty, developing patience, trust, and leadership.
  • Kay's focus shifted from success to service and leading her team.
  • This shift brought joy and faith to her cheering.
  • Kay received a scholarship to a college and the opportunity to try out as a walk-on.

Common Themes

  • Both Jay and Kay faced significant challenges, but they tackled them with optimism, hope, faith, and trust.
  • Mr. Erwin played a crucial role in guiding them to overcome obstacles using the Five D's.
  • They are no longer paralyzed by fear, controlled by anxiety, or sabotaged by stress.
  • They learned that God has a plan, and they are guided in their battles.

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