Ch. 7 Love & Intimacy Flashcards
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Ch. 7 Love & Intimacy Flashcards

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What is Romantic Love?

  • Idealized love, based on romance and perfection (correct)
  • Altruistic, selfless, never demanding, patient, and true
  • Loving another when the love will never be returned
  • An intimate form of love that involves friendly affection
  • What is Unrequited Love?

  • The Crazy Lover
  • Loving another when the love will never be returned (correct)
  • An intimate form of love that involves friendly affection
  • Passion alone leads to infatuation
  • What does Companionate Love involve?

  • Immediate attraction to a lover
  • Possessive and dependent emotions
  • A shopping list of qualities in a partner
  • A quiet, calm love that builds over time (correct)
  • What is Conjugal Love also referred to as?

    <p>Companionate Love</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which love type is described as having no intimacy, passion, or commitment?

    <p>Nonlove</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is Eros?

    <p>The Romantic Lover, characterized by immediate attraction and an ideal partner in mind.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What characterizes Ludus?

    <p>The Game-Playing Lover, who enjoys the act of seduction without valuing commitment.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Describe Storge?

    <p>A quiet, calm love that builds over time, similar to companionate love.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is Mania in the context of love?

    <p>The Crazy Lover, characterized by possessiveness and dependency on the beloved.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Define Pragma.

    <p>The Practical Lover, who has a 'shopping list' of desired qualities in a partner.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does Agape represent?

    <p>The Selfless Lover, characterized by altruism and patience.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What leads to Infatuation?

    <p>Passion alone.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is Empty Love?

    <p>A form of love involving only commitment without passion and intimacy.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What leads to Romantic Love?

    <p>Passion and intimacy.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Study Notes

    Love Types Overview

    • Romantic Love: Idealized and perfection-based, often focused on passion and attraction.
    • Unrequited Love: Love directed toward someone who does not reciprocate feelings.
    • Companionate Love: Deep affection characterized by familiarity, often equated with conjugal love.

    Love Styles

    • Eros (The Romantic Lover):

      • Immediate attraction; focuses on physical traits.
      • Tends to have an idealized version of a partner, which is unfulfillable.
      • Participants often feel secure in childhood attachments.
    • Ludus (The Game-Playing Lover):

      • Views love as a playful game; lacks serious commitment.
      • Enjoys multiple simultaneous relationships without deep emotional ties.
      • Typically associated with an avoidant attachment style stemming from childhood.
    • Storge (The Quiet, Calm Lover):

      • Develops slowly and organically; emphasizes stability and comfort.
      • Relationships often evolve into friendships post-breakup.
      • Contrasts with erotic lovers who desire intense romance.
    • Mania (The Crazy Lover):

      • Characterized by possessiveness and dependence; emotional highs and lows are prevalent.
      • Lovers experience significant anxiety about separation and often display obsessive tendencies.
      • Usually linked to an anxious/ambivalent upbringing.
    • Pragma (The Practical Lover):

      • Pragmatic approach to love with set expectations and planning.
      • Seeks long-term relationships based on specific criteria, akin to creating a “shopping list.”
      • Very calculated about important milestones and decisions in love.
    • Agape (The Selfless Lover):

      • Altruistic and selfless love that does not require reciprocity.
      • Exhibits patience and absence of jealousy; typically short-lived episodes.
      • Rarely found in long-term relationships; often exemplified by selfless acts.

    Love Without Intimacy or Passion

    • Nonlove: Casual interactions lacking intimacy, passion, or commitment (NO P, NO I, NO C).
    • Liking: Presence of intimacy without strong passion or commitment, typical in friendships (YES I, NO P, NO C).
    • Infatuation: Intense passion with a lack of intimacy; often fleeting and focused on physical desire (YES P, NO I, NO C).
    • Empty Love: Commitment without passion or intimacy; may evolve into more meaningful relationships (YES C, NO I, NO P).
    • Romantic Love: Combination of passion and intimacy; often a relationship's initial phase characterized by joy (YES P, YES I, NO C).

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    Test your knowledge of key concepts related to love and intimacy with these flashcards. Concepts like romantic love, unrequited love, and companionate love are explored in detail, providing a comprehensive understanding of emotional connections. Ideal for anyone studying psychology or relationships.

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