Biblical marriage: God's design

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In Genesis 2:18-25, why did God determine that it was not good for the man to be alone?

  • To establish a social hierarchy in the Garden of Eden.
  • To prevent the man from becoming lonely, isolated, and self-centered. (correct)
  • To provide the man with assistance in subduing the earth.
  • To ensure the man had someone to share his possessions with.

According to Genesis 2:24-25, what action signifies the start of marriage?

  • The couple engaging in a formal ceremony witnessed by the community.
  • A man and a woman committing to creating a family together.
  • A man and a woman leaving their earthly relationships and embracing each other. (correct)
  • The couple establishing a new household separate from their parents.

What does it mean for a husband and wife to 'become one' in marriage?

  • They must prioritize their spouse's needs above their own at all times.
  • They must legally merge their assets and finances.
  • They enter into an intimate union, sharing everything and working towards common goals. (correct)
  • They should strive for complete uniformity in thoughts and actions.

Recognizing that marriage reflects God's image, what are the three major reflections of God?

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According to Ephesians 5:25-27, how should husbands love their wives?

<p>By loving them as Christ loved the church, making them holy and blameless. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does a marriage that does not function according to God's original plan affect the perception of God's image?

<p>It displays a marred image of God and distorts its intended message. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

In addition to companionship, what is another purpose of marriage?

<p>Raising godly children who advance God's kingdom. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to Genesis 1:28, how does marriage contribute to establishing and building God's kingdom?

<p>By multiplying and subduing the earth, ruling over creation as stewards. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What might occur if couples forget the reasons God created marriage?

<p>The marriage relationship could be destined for abuse. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What perspective on marriage is supported by Proverbs 18:22?

<p>Marriage is a good thing that brings favor from the Lord. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to Hebrews 13:4, what aspect of marriage should be particularly honored and guarded?

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In Malachi 2:14, what is broken when marriage vows are violated?

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What foundational principle does Genesis 2:24-25 establish regarding the structure of marriage?

<p>Marriage is intended to be between one man and one woman only. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Ephesians 5:31,32 describes marriage as a profound mystery and as a union of two becoming one. What key elements are foundational to this union?

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Matthew 19:6 states, 'what God has joined together, let not man separate.' What concept does this reinforce?

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What is the significance of God bringing Eve to Adam?

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What does it mean for a couple to 'leave' their parents and 'cleave' to one another?

<p>They should prioritize their marital relationship above all other earthly relationships. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does the characteristic of 'agreement' contribute to a successful marriage?

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In what way does the marriage relationship reflect the image of God?

<p>It embodies God's plurality and unity, submission, and love. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How can couples uniquely contribute to building God's kingdom through their marriage?

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What distinguishes marriage from other types of relationships?

<p>The exclusive inner circle shared between a bonded man and woman. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does it mean for a spouse to be an 'open book' to their partner in the context of marriage?

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How does the concept of 'complementing' enhance a marriage relationship?

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How can marriage as a symbol of God's image be distorted?

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Why is submission within marriage emphasized in light of reflecting God’s image?

<p>To mirror perfect submission in the Godhead and maintain order within the relationship. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What role does open communication play in developing companionship within marriage, and how does this align with the concept of becoming one?

<p>It reduces the risk of misunderstandings, fostering a sense of unity. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which actions can build unity in marriage?

<p>Praying together and following biblical principles. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The scriptures say that those who marry will face troubles. Which is the best way to prepare for this reality?

<p>Recognize this reality and prepare for it by seeking guidance and support. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does recognizing marriage as a 'solemn covenant' influence conflict resolution?

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In what ways might a couple 'neglect' building God's kingdom within their marriage?

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How can couples foster a sense of shared stewardship over creation within their marriage?

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How could differing views on career aspirations impact a marriage?

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How does understanding marriage as a journey of lifelong love 'impact the perspective and actions of someone in a difficult marriage?

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In Genesis 2, why was Adam's naming of the animals significant?

<p>It demonstrated his role of differentiation in what was created, as well as the relational gap between them. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

Biblical Definition of Marriage

Marriage is a man and a woman leaving other earthly relationships, embracing each other, and becoming one person before God.

Why God Created Eve

God created Eve to eliminate loneliness, isolation, and selfishness in man.

Purpose of Marriage

Marriage is designed by God to eliminate the negative experiences of a man being alone, fostering companionship.

Marriage Design

Marriage is an intimate union designed by God between a man and a woman.

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God's Design for a Spouse

In marriage, God made someone physically, intellectually, and morally suitable, yet still very different.

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Reflecting God's Image

Marriage reflects the image of God through plurality and unity.

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Order in Marriage

In marriage, there is supposed to be order in the relationship.

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Love in Marriage

Husbands should sacrifice for their wives like Christ loved the church.

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Raising Godly Children

Marriage should produce children who are holy and desire to advance God's kingdom.

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Building God's Kingdom

Marriage helps couples establish and build God's kingdom together on Earth.

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Companionship in Marriage

Marriage is companionship; it is not good for man to be alone, so God created marriage.

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Marriage Good Return

Marriage partners help each other up.

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Marriage as a 'Good Thing'

Marriage is a 'good thing' that blesses, benefits, and enriches lives.

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Honoring Marriage

Marriage is an institution to be honored, especially honoring sexual intimacy between spouses.

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Marriage Covenant

Marriage is a solemn covenant that should be a promise, witnessed by God.

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Marriage Exclusivity

Marriage is exclusively between one man and one woman.

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Union of Two

Marriage is about leaving one's parents and becoming one flesh with a spouse.

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Relationship in Marriage

A key aspect of becoming one in marriage.

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Intimacy

It is where each life is like an open book to the other and there is freedom to share everything.

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Marriage Journey

Till death do us apart.

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Study Notes

Understanding Marriage

  • Consider your "long view" of a future marriage relationship
  • Think about where you see yourself in five, ten, and twenty years

Distorted Views on Marriage

  • Child marriages are a distorted view
  • Marriages of convenience are a distorted view
  • Live-in relationships that do away with marriage are a distorted view
  • Same-sex marriages are a distorted view

Marriage and the Bible

  • The Bible should be standard for understanding marriage
  • Marriage should be understood from a biblical perspective
  • People should live according to what God's holy Word teaches

God as Marriage Designer

  • Genesis 2:18-25 discusses God's design for marriage
  • God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone" (Genesis 2:18)
  • God created animals and birds, but no suitable helper for Adam was found
  • God caused Adam to sleep and took one of his ribs to create woman
  • Man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for she was taken out of man" (Genesis 2:23)
  • A man leaves his parents and is united to his wife, becoming one flesh (Genesis 2:24)
  • Adam and his wife were naked and felt no shame (Genesis 2:25)

Necessity of Marriage

  • A man would be lonely, isolated, and selfish/self-centered if alone
  • God created Eve for Adam to eliminate these issues
  • Marriage was designed to eliminate the negative aspects of being alone
  • Adam recognized Eve as someone he could relate to differently than the rest of creation
  • God solemnized the first "wedding" by bringing Eve to Adam

Biblical Definition

  • Marriage is a man and a woman leaving other earthly relationships
  • They embrace each other and become one person before God
  • God designed the intimate union called "marriage" when creating woman

God's Design of Companions

  • God made man's counterpart physically, intellectually, and morally suitable
  • Man's counterpart is also very different from him

Marriage Reflecting God's Image

  • Genesis 1:26-28 and 2:18, 24 outline God's plan for marriage
  • The image of God is reflected in the plurality and unity of marriage
  • There is perfect submission in the Godhead, mirroring order in the marital relationship
  • 1 Corinthians 11:3: "The head of every man is Christ, the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God."
  • Marriage includes great love as described in Ephesians 5:25-27
  • When marriage doesn't function according to God's plan, it distorts God's image

Raising Godly Children

  • God wants marriage to produce godly children as stated in Genesis 1:28
  • Genesis 1:28 says "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it"
  • Malachi 2:15 questions why God seeks godly offspring through marriage

Establishing and Building God's Kingdom

  • God wants marriage to establish and build His kingdom
  • Genesis 1:28 commands to "fill the earth and subdue it" and "rule over every living creature"
  • Adam and Eve were told to subdue and rule over the earth, acting as co-rulers and stewards
  • Each couple has unique gifts to build His kingdom and must discern their calling

Companionship in Marriage

  • God designed marriage for companionship
  • It's not good for man to be alone, so God made a helper
  • Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 provides reasons why companionship is good:
    • Two are better than one because they have a good return for their work
    • If one falls, the other can help
    • Two lying together keep warm
    • Two can defend themselves when one may be overpowered
    • A cord of three strands is not quickly broken

Conclusion

  • Reasons for God creating marriage should be remembered
  • Forgetting these reasons can lead to abuse in the marriage relationship
  • Neglecting to build God's kingdom, raise godly children, or provide companionship, cripples marriage

Biblical Perspectives on Marriage

Marriage as a Good Thing

  • Proverbs 18:22 suggests finding a wife is a good thing that obtains favor from the Lord
  • Marriage was designed by God and enriches individual's lives

Marriage as an Institution to be Honored

  • Hebrews 13:4 advises honoring marriage and guarding sexual intimacy between husband and wife
  • Marriage is to be held in reverence and honor
  • Sexual intimacy should be sacred and guarded with purity, intended only for husband and wife

Marriage as a Solemn Covenant (Promise)

  • Malachi 2:14 reminds of marriage vows spoken before God

Marriage: One Man and One Woman

  • Genesis 2:24-25 states that a man leaves his parents and embraces his wife, becoming one flesh
  • Marriage is meant for one man and one woman

Marriage as a Union of Two

  • Genesis 2:24 states a man leaves his parents and embraces his wife, becoming one flesh
  • Ephesians 5:31-32: "a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife, and the two will become one”

Becoming One

  • "Becoming one" involves:
    • Relationship: Building a strong foundation of love, trust, respect, and understanding
    • Companionship: Developed through communication, sharing, caring, and time together
    • Agreement: Considering each other's ideas and aligning with God's purpose
    • Complementing: Supporting and complementing each other despite differences
    • Unity: Flowing together, using differences as a reason for collaboration
    • Intimacy: (Closeness) Sharing everything and being open with each other

Marriage: Journey of Love

  • Matthew 19:6 states of marriage, "what God has joined together, let not man separate"

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