Affirmative Consent and Reporting Unwanted Sex

Affirmative consent is the explicit and voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity. It is important because it ensures that all sexual partners are actively and willingly participating in the activity, eliminating any ambiguity or confusion.

The absence of a 'no' can no longer be interpreted as a 'yes' because it is crucial to have explicit consent. Silence or the lack of resistance does not indicate consent, and it is necessary for partners to verbally express their agreement.

Consent given by an impaired partner, such as someone who is drunk or high, does not qualify as a 'yes'. This is because impaired individuals may not have the capacity to make informed and voluntary decisions, and their ability to give true consent may be compromised.

To report unwanted sexual activity or assault, you should reach out to your school counselor, school nurse, or social worker. Additionally, you can contact your local police or sheriff for assistance.

Flirting is wanted or welcome, feels good, is complimentary, mutual or shared, non-threatening, and builds the esteem of both people. On the other hand, sexual harassment is unwanted, feels bad or uncomfortable, is degrading, one-sided, threatening, gives one person power over another, is demanding, and insulting.