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In what ways does Rasheed verbally degrade Mariam?
In what ways does Rasheed verbally degrade Mariam?
He calls her a harami, saying if she were a car she would be a Volga.
Why does Rasheed have reservations about Laila's upbringing, and what changes will he enforce?
Why does Rasheed have reservations about Laila's upbringing, and what changes will he enforce?
He does not like the leniency her parents had with her, so he makes sure that she cannot leave the house unless he is with him.
What rules does Mariam lay down when she confronts Laila about both their roles in the household?
What rules does Mariam lay down when she confronts Laila about both their roles in the household?
Laila will do the laundry and sweep the house, Mariam will cook and wash the dishes, then they will alternate the remaining chores.
How does Mariam feel after establishing the rules?
How does Mariam feel after establishing the rules?
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What new information do you learn about the death of Rasheed's first child?
What new information do you learn about the death of Rasheed's first child?
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Why does the Koran forbid drinking?
Why does the Koran forbid drinking?
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How does Laila deal with her grief over the next several months?
How does Laila deal with her grief over the next several months?
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How does Laila feel about wearing the burqa?
How does Laila feel about wearing the burqa?
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What do Mariam and Laila get into a fight over?
What do Mariam and Laila get into a fight over?
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Why might the two women have enjoyed the argument?
Why might the two women have enjoyed the argument?
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What is unusual about Laila's arrival home from the hospital?
What is unusual about Laila's arrival home from the hospital?
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What complaints does Rasheed have about the baby?
What complaints does Rasheed have about the baby?
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Why does Mariam 'smirk' when she hears Rasheed complaining?
Why does Mariam 'smirk' when she hears Rasheed complaining?
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Why are the baby's clothes an issue?
Why are the baby's clothes an issue?
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What is Mariam's reaction to Rasheed ignoring Laila?
What is Mariam's reaction to Rasheed ignoring Laila?
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What does Rasheed try to blame Mariam for?
What does Rasheed try to blame Mariam for?
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Describe what happens during the fight between Rasheed and Mariam.
Describe what happens during the fight between Rasheed and Mariam.
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Describe Mariam's middle of the night encounter with the baby. What can you infer from it?
Describe Mariam's middle of the night encounter with the baby. What can you infer from it?
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What does Rasheed ask Laila about Tariq?
What does Rasheed ask Laila about Tariq?
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What gift from Mariam does Laila find outside her bedroom door?
What gift from Mariam does Laila find outside her bedroom door?
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How does Laila finally win over Mariam?
How does Laila finally win over Mariam?
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When the 'look passed between Laila and Mariam,' what do the two women come to understand?
When the 'look passed between Laila and Mariam,' what do the two women come to understand?
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What behaviors at the beginning of chapter 35 show that Laila and Mariam are becoming friends?
What behaviors at the beginning of chapter 35 show that Laila and Mariam are becoming friends?
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Mariam is slightly awkward with Aziza and tells her, 'I am nobody...What have I got to give you?' Why does Mariam behave this way?
Mariam is slightly awkward with Aziza and tells her, 'I am nobody...What have I got to give you?' Why does Mariam behave this way?
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Mariam says she has a 'life of false, failed connections.' Who are or were these connections and why?
Mariam says she has a 'life of false, failed connections.' Who are or were these connections and why?
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How and why has the war worsened?
How and why has the war worsened?
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Mariam says that 'love was a damaging mistake, and its accomplice, hope, a treacherous illusion.' Do you agree? Explain.
Mariam says that 'love was a damaging mistake, and its accomplice, hope, a treacherous illusion.' Do you agree? Explain.
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How does Laila's secret make Mariam feel a stronger connection to Aziza?
How does Laila's secret make Mariam feel a stronger connection to Aziza?
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Why must Mariam and Laila find a male escort?
Why must Mariam and Laila find a male escort?
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What does Laila tell the young man about her family situation?
What does Laila tell the young man about her family situation?
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How does the young man betray Mariam and Laila?
How does the young man betray Mariam and Laila?
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During the interrogation, how does the policeman try to catch Laila and Mariam in a lie?
During the interrogation, how does the policeman try to catch Laila and Mariam in a lie?
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Why is it ironic that the policeman says, 'It's my responsibility, you see, to maintain order'?
Why is it ironic that the policeman says, 'It's my responsibility, you see, to maintain order'?
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Summarize Rasheed's brutal reaction to Laila and Mariam's attempt to run away.
Summarize Rasheed's brutal reaction to Laila and Mariam's attempt to run away.
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What effects of heat and dehydration do Laila and Aziza experience?
What effects of heat and dehydration do Laila and Aziza experience?
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Who are the Taliban, and what is Rasheed's opinion of them?
Who are the Taliban, and what is Rasheed's opinion of them?
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How do the citizens of Kabul react to the Taliban's arrival?
How do the citizens of Kabul react to the Taliban's arrival?
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Which of the Taliban's rules is most surprising to you, and why?
Which of the Taliban's rules is most surprising to you, and why?
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Describe some ways in which the Taliban soldiers destroy Kabul.
Describe some ways in which the Taliban soldiers destroy Kabul.
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In what way does Rasheed wield power over Laila regarding the Taliban's strict laws about women?
In what way does Rasheed wield power over Laila regarding the Taliban's strict laws about women?
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Explain why Laila is in the bathroom with a bicycle spoke.
Explain why Laila is in the bathroom with a bicycle spoke.
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What is wrong with Laila when Rasheed and Mariam take her to Malahai Hospital?
What is wrong with Laila when Rasheed and Mariam take her to Malahai Hospital?
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Why can Laila not get medical attention at the hospital?
Why can Laila not get medical attention at the hospital?
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In what ways is Rabia Balkhi Hospital different from a hospital you might visit?
In what ways is Rabia Balkhi Hospital different from a hospital you might visit?
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While at the hospital, how does Mariam come to understand Nana?
While at the hospital, how does Mariam come to understand Nana?
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How old is Laila's son now?
How old is Laila's son now?
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How is Rasheed's treatment of Zalmai different from his treatment of Aziza?
How is Rasheed's treatment of Zalmai different from his treatment of Aziza?
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How does Aziza treat her little brother?
How does Aziza treat her little brother?
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Why is it risky for Rasheed to buy Zalmai a television?
Why is it risky for Rasheed to buy Zalmai a television?
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Why does Rasheed suggest to Laila that they let Aziza beg on the streets?
Why does Rasheed suggest to Laila that they let Aziza beg on the streets?
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What is Laila's response when she punches Rasheed?
What is Laila's response when she punches Rasheed?
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What do they bury in the backyard?
What do they bury in the backyard?
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Study Notes
Character Dynamics
- Rasheed verbally degrades Mariam by calling her "harami" and compares her to an undesirable car, emphasizing his disdain for her.
- Rasheed imposes strict controls on Laila, not allowing her to leave the house unaccompanied, reflecting his possessive nature and negative view of Laila's upbringing.
Household Roles and Relationships
- Mariam establishes household rules that require Laila to take on specific chores, indicating a shift in power dynamics and their forced cohabitation.
- Post-rule establishment, Mariam feels nervous and unsatisfied, signaling her internal conflict regarding the new arrangement.
- Mariam learns damaging news about Rasheed's past and his first child's death due to his negligence.
Coping and Resistance
- Laila copes with her grief through chores and walks, illustrating her attempt to maintain normalcy despite her emotional turmoil.
- Laila feels conflicted about the burqa, finding comfort in not being seen while resenting the loss of her identity.
- A fight between Mariam and Laila over a wooden spoon allows them to release pent-up emotions, hinting at budding camaraderie.
Motherhood and Gender Roles
- Laila's return home from the hospital with a baby girl leads to Rasheed's complaints about the child's gender and noise, showcasing his patriarchal mindset.
- Mariam smirks at Rasheed's frustrations with the baby, indicating a shift in her feelings towards him as he now experiences hardships himself.
Friendship Development
- Laila and Mariam bond over caring for Aziza, sharing responsibilities that strengthen their relationship as they transition from adversaries to allies.
- Mariam grapples with feelings of inadequacy around Aziza, stating she has "nothing" to offer, stemming from her past of failed connections.
Societal Changes and Conflict
- The war in Afghanistan has worsened as factions turn against each other, and the Taliban gains power following the Soviet withdrawal.
- The Taliban's arrival is met with public support, including parades celebrating their rule, revealing societal complexities in Kabul.
- The enforcement of strict rules, such as prohibiting pet parakeets, illustrates the Taliban's harsh governance and absurdity.
Violence and Resistance
- Rasheed reacts violently when Mariam and Laila attempt to escape, showcasing his brutality, which includes humiliation and physical abuse.
- Effects of the oppressive environment lead to Laila and Aziza suffering from dehydration and hallucinations during captivity.
Health Care and Gender Discrimination
- Laila's labor complications at Malahai Hospital highlight the lack of medical care for women in the Taliban regime.
- Rabia Balkhi Hospital illustrates inadequate medical facilities, unprepared to assist women in childbirth or medical emergencies.
Familial Relationships
- Rasheed's treatment of his son Zalmai differs significantly from Aziza, marked by affection and indulgence reflecting gender biases.
- Aziza plays a nurturing role towards her little brother, which reveals her maturity despite her difficult upbringing.
Consequences of Resistance
- Laila's confrontation with Rasheed, resulting in her punching him, escalates to threats against her life, portraying severe power dynamics in their relationship.
- Rasheed's secretive actions, such as burying the television, underscore his awareness of the risks associated with defying Taliban restrictions and indicate growing tension within the household.
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This quiz focuses on the events and character dynamics in chapters 31-40 of 'A Thousand Splendid Suns.' It explores themes of degradation, control, and familial relationships, particularly focusing on the characters Rasheed, Mariam, and Laila. Use these flashcards to test your understanding of the text and discuss the implications of Rasheed's behavior.