Mastering the Art of Giving Oral Sex

Dry mouth is common, and there are ways to deal with it.

Preparation makes perfect.

You don't have to give blow jobs if you don't like it.

The anecdotal "hack" that going deeper produces more spit might work for some but not all.

If gagging sucks and makes you feel like you're going to die, the ends don't always justify the means.

There are some dudes who don't like getting head, just like some women find that getting head puts too much pressure on them to orgasm to the point where they can't enjoy it.

Don't take it personally if your boyf just ain't about it.

Some dudes find that blow jobs just don't do it for them.

If you're going at it for ages and nothing's happening, and your dude is like, "Yeah, I might not finish from this since I rarely can," do not take it personally! It's admirable to want to be a sex magician who can do the undoable, but if your jaw deadass hurts, like, it's not life or death if you stop.

You can and should straight-up be like, "Don't do that,," if a guy tries to do that thing where he shoves your head down onto his dick midway through oral and you hate it.

Bringing a vibe into things can make giving head even hotter.

It's pretty impossible to screw a blow job up.

Giving a partner the first blow job is a way to show that you're comfortable with them and vice versa

There are many different ways to give a good blow job, so experiment until you find what your partner enjoys

It's important to communicate with your partner about what they want in a blow job

Condoms should be worn during oral sex to prevent STIs

Most people don't look their best when performing oral sex, so don't feel pressured to look good

Pre-blow job teasing can help speed up the process

Most people like blow jobs

You don't have to do anything fancy or complicated

You can ask your partner what they want

A penis doesn't have eyeballs (and can't tell the difference between the back of a throat and the roof of a mouth)

Anyone who DEMANDS a blow job is not worth your time

It isn't a fancy massage at a spa and therefore doesn't have to be all about them

Your hands can pinch-hit when your mouth needs some time on the job

You don't have to swallow and then giggle and say, "OMG, it's so fun to swallow your hot, steamy cum. I really love it a lot!”